Saturday, August 28, 2010

!-!OPE


Andy to Red: "Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things and no good thing ever dies" in the movie "The Shawshank Redemption".

I have fallen in love with this dialogue. Infat this is not just a dialogue but its reality . Hope can make you lively, optimistic and enthusiastic. Hope should never die as it helps you to achieve things which says that they are "impossible". There is a hope that helps you to move on in life. Life goes on with hope of achieving something, hope of being happy and making people around happy, hope of meeting the special someone and being with him/her forever, hope to recover from any disease, hope of being successful, being free and independent. Life is a broken-winged bird without hope. There is light at the end of every tunnel. The tunnel here is life and the light is hope which shows you the path to move forward. The only mantra to Life is "hope". It is the engine that drives the vehicle called life. It is the soul of living life. So, we should never give up the hope to move forward in life. Things may get delayed but it will surely happen if you have hope in it and faith in yourself. It will help you to cross the unseen bridges. Everything in life is temporary and so is the bad situation. So always keep the hope alive and this hope will do everything to keep you alive in real sense.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

M!$$ U BRO!!


hmmmm...what a end of the day. Raksha Bandhan was never that sad.

I am paying the opportunity cost for my high aspirations, infact everyone is. With the fast moving world, we get so preoccupied with ourselves, our study, our job and *our* life and thus we are missing onto those special days and special people in our lives which we used to wait for during our childhood days. We now do wait eagerly for Valentines day but we don't for our own cultural festivals.

I remember waiting for every festival with so much of enthusiasm and so for the Raksha Bandhan, the day meant for getting loads of gifts. Well that was the innocent times, but now i realize the true essence of the eve when i am miles away from my sweet brother. I am missing you bhaia. I am missing teasing you, fighting with you even to have a ice-cream, demanding for gifts and chocolates, studying from you( though i didn't like it at that point of time but i seriously need it now and can't just forget those days of my boards and your efforts which helped me to get some decent scores), cooking for you at a later stage (previously it was you who used to cook for me in mom's absence), sitting on the bicycle with you, spending time( sometimes arguing)with you, your guidance, your strictness though i never followed it, your gratitude towards our lovely parents, your support and everything. You are an inspiration to me. I still remember the time when you were the first one to hear to my cries and motivating me to take those challenges.No one can ever replace the care and love you have for me. Its been a year that we have seen each other but these memories bring tears in my eyes and then my eyes blink with a hope of seeing you in near future.

May your life be filled with lots of happiness, good health, success and you live a prosperous life with a beautiful lady and sweet children.:P
Take care Brother. You are the bestest brother that anyone can dream of. You are like a second mother to me. Love you. Miss you.

Monday, August 23, 2010

FR!END$


Ooh lala la!!I am really happy today because of many reasons.
Maybe because I got an extended weekend or maybe i got some pleasant surprises like a call from my darling friend. Looking at the past is lovely yet sad, joyful yet a little low. Oh i miss my old times a lot. The innocence, the silly fights, the attitude of not hurting other and caring overly about it, the craziness about getting clicked rather being on the other side, the madness of dancing non-stop in those DJ nights during fest, the weekend trips, spending time in canteen together and having those samosa, pulling each other's leg, discussing about the love life(doesn't matter whosoever it was) and commenting on it, late night chats, fighting over the last spoon of maggi and what not. These things are making me nostalgic and i am sure it would be making you too. These things make us realize of a beautiful life yesterday which passed so comfortably with the lovely (sometimes they do get devilish :P) friends. I miss them a lot who used to change my facial expression from :-( to :-). My four years of graduation was much way easier than these two years of killing post graduation with the best of best friends.
Love you all. Thanks for making me a part of your life. :))))))

Sunday, August 22, 2010

The Secret


Few days back, i watched a documentary called the Secret. I really liked it and want to share the learnings that i took from it though i didn't understand much about the secret of being happy, secret of being prosperous and the secret of living life but watching it gave me some peace.

The secret in a nutshell can be briefed as:

The secret is the law of attraction which is the greatest law in the universe (I know many of you must be wondering how? people generally relate law of attraction only for relationship, so read further to know more). We are a magnet and the thoughts are the one that are attracted to us. Whatever happens even is a cause of the law of attraction which is the strongest law in the universe. Universe is a Jenie (refer the story of Alladin) who is always ready to grant our wishes, we just need to be passionate about the wish.

Our thoughts are guided by Our feelings. If we are feeling bad about something then we must do something that will make us feel good like we should listen to music, think about a baby or something that makes us happy and make us feel good because it is ultimately we who create the universe around us as mentioned by great Winston Churchill. We must change our focus from what we don’t want to what we want which is the most important aspect of this law.

How does this law works?

1. 1. Ask which means we need to ask what we need. Making a list of what we want always helps.

2. 2. Answer which implies that are we passionate enough to get the things that we want.

3. 3. Receive which means we need to have an emotional alignment with our wishes.

Universe likes speed. Don’t delay but act. Out of noway a way is made.Martin Luther King has asked us to take the first step in the faith and the things will follow on their own. People wonder that how long is it going to take? The answer to it is to be in alignment with the universe.

We feel stuck with something because we think about it over and over again because majority of thought comes from what we observe. We are nothing but residual to the past actions. What we are the result of what we have thought as mentioned by Budhha. Gratitude shifts our energy and thinking. Focus on what we have and not on what we don’t have. We must feel grateful for what we have. An attitude of gratitude is must for a happy life.

When we visualize then we materialize. We must always and only dwell upon the end results. It’s the feeling that create internal thought. Feel the joy and happiness. Universe always says “your wish is my command”, we just need to show passion for it. We must have a vision point, we will receive it sooner or later maybe after 5 yrs but we will for sure.

Albert Einstein Quoted "Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life coming attractions." He was s true in his sayings

Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve. When we have inspired thought we have to trust it and act on it.

Don’t tell you want money, tell how much of money do you want. Quantify the list of your desires. Have a specific goal in your life.

Have an attitude of "Oh if you can do, why can't I?". Don't just run after money because money is not wealth but a part of wealth. So don’t earn it at stake of relationship. Go for inner peace and inner vision first and then go for the outer world. We must ask this question to us that do we treat ourselves the way we want other people to treat us? So, we must have a healthy respect for ourselves. We must orient ourselves to the best part of people who surrounds us rather than being complainant. Having a potential to feel good is a key to a peaceful life. We are the only one who creates our reality. We must have a caliber of Self healing and we must be emotionally stable to be healthy. We must not keep talking about our disease as we are creating more disease by thinking about it.

Have a difference between fearful and hopeful recovery. Stress degrade the body. Try to get inspired from Moriss Goodman, the miracle man who survived a airplane crash with his strong will and determination to live.

What we resist will always persist.

We are here to create our own world that we chose and allow others to chose their own. Fear of lack, greed and stringiness become experience. We all don’t want the same thing like experience, clothing or whatever. We all have a different choice.

We must believe it, see it, act for it, it will surely show up for us. We must do the best to ignore the things that we don’t want. Everything in the universe is energy. We have the potential and power to create our own world. 85% of family are dysfunctional which means their is always some problem that don't keep our family 100% family. It may be a health issue, relationship issue or anything. So, we must not feel bad about it.

"Whether you think you can or you can’t the either way you are right",Henry Ford.

Think about positive words like Joy,love,happiness,freedom,laughter.

"Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were walls",Joseph Campbell. If we don’t feel good about something just let it go. There is nothing that we can’t do. We are here because we wanted to be here.

I know this things seems good when we study or watch but implementing in life is tough. The one who implements it always remains happy and leads a prosperous life while others read it, appreciate it and then forget about it as life moves on. Its on you to decide whether you want to fall in the first category or the second one. I certainly want to be the first one and will try hard for it!!

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

The Good Old Times!!


Oops..I again took a long break to write. I really had a good time during my internship with lots of sweet and some sour experiences, got to know people more. The time changed my equations with people. The time made me learnt to be more patient, to be more cool in the scorching heat of Hyderabad, showed me the technicalities involved in impressing your boss in the office which taught me that its not only your skills and talent that helps you in impressing your boss but its about the networking that counts for almost 80% and ya finally the internship taught me to cross few roads.

Well that was about the time i had. I would like to share my current time. I am back to the Campus again and i feel same as i used to feel in my days of first semester. Yes, I am talking about feeling lonely, missing home and some new add-ons like missing my old hostel room, my mess though i got a better mess this time, the hectic schedule that i used to have. I miss everything about my first year, the time of internship. I know i am going to love this time too, i would love my new room, my new mess and everything new about this second year at the campus sooner or later.

But the above thoughts provoke me to think why don't we realize the importance in present time rather than treasuring it for the later moments. I still remember how i used to wait for the end of my fourth year in my B.tech days but when i had to leave, i left with tears in my eyes. It is rightly said time is the greatest gift that anyone can give. The current time gives you pleasure but the good old times give you memories which can bring tears in your eyes and smile on your face. Time flies by when you are surrounded by fresh air full of love and care. Not only we get attached to the living beings around us but we also get attached to the non-living things around us. Can you tell why this happens? why, we humans are blessed with a excellent memory retention that may cause pain to your heart and at the same time can bring happiness to you. I just love this thing about being a human. That is the emotional part of me.

Well i hope i would be back soon with the new memories and affection for everything new around me and then also i will say that i treasure my good old times which i am not liking now.Till then you people enjoy your time no matter how bad or good it is because you will treasure that time and memories forever.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

R/\NDOM


I was reminded by one of my friend recently that i owe a blog..I was just wondering that why i have not written anything on my blog since days..was that i had nothing to write,nothing to share or nothing eventful was happening around me..i have nothing great to write..
will just share my new life to you...

Yes the life..the SIP life..the summer internship life...the college says it is a part of curriculum as they want us to have a exposure to corporate world..but truly speaking this is a exposure to real life..the exposure to life which is not full of facilities,not much of fun as we had in college...the life which makes us realize that how important the college peaceful life is..

Well the day starts with the feeling that "oh no..aaj fir se office..college rehta to bunk to kar sakte the"...the worst part is that you cannot bunk the office..then getting ready..rushing for breakfast..infact the pathetic food which i have started eating for survival...how much i miss my mess food now..the food that we used to curse...again it made us realize the importance of college ka aaram wala life..ohh..then the painful journey to office by the overloaded buses of hyderabad which stops after every 2 mins..i don't know why do people even travel through these overloaded buses which is thrice as full as its capacity..reached office...oh no again its late..go and do the job which seems not at all beneficial..curse the people who landed me there and do the work...oh my god i miss my college life..attending those boring lectures were a easier task..again rush for the tasteless food..."khao lo because bhukh lag rhi hai"...back to office....then back again in the overloaded bus in the hot summer...oh i again curse hyderabad and says that i don't wanna live here...i want a healthy life and a healthy skin too..:P
The day has already passed..spend some time with friends..the relaxing time of the day..some chatting,some phone calls,some net surfing...and ya some for the project too...and the day is over...sleep now with the heavy feeling "kya yaar kal fir se office"...
weekdays passed...office on saturday too...oho..hold on...i don't wait for sundays...washing clothes..oops..watching some muvi...the day passes again alarming for monday again...i count the weeks then...waiting for the 14th week to come soon..

Well this was my SIP life..the life that alarms me about the life i would be having after one year..the life after college..the life that makes me think about the smallest issues too...the life that makes me realize the importance of my current life which is full of facilities ,full of fun and without any responsibilities..i hope this exposure will make me ready for the life..the life full of competition...infact the Real Life..wish me luck guys...

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Crossroads..


oh..oh..oh...Finance,marketing,HR ....blah..blah...life is almost at crossroads..mind says to go for finance..my grades asks me to go for marketing and people around suggesting me for HR..what should i do..i am unable to decide..does any of the subjects interests me..infact i think they don't..sometimes i feel what i am doing in my MBA... i can't decide..time is flying by..few days left to select...i just ponder why am i always so confused..why do i always leave my major decisions on the "life" itself..people say about leading their lives..why can't i do that..why do my life lead me..is there something wrong with my attitude..but it does not matter till i feel i am happy..but people call it crazy when someone don't know what they exactly desire of their life..same is the case with me..i have never known what i want..things go on happening and i just accept it and i am happy the way i am living my life but how long is this going to help me..this has not happened with me for the first time and i am sure this must have happened with all of you atleast once in the life that you find yourself at crossroads..where you have to choose among many options and you don't know what is the best for you..
i remember the days when i used to ask my mom to select a dress for me because i used to be so confused..and still i am the same ..but this time it is not a small issue..ohh i know i am bugging you all people..
time will fly by..it never stops..it leaves you with memories and the CROSSROADS...i just remember the final year of B.tech..when i never thought regarding higher studies but time made me do it..oh..again into the depressing world of books,lectures,exams and add-ons like cases,class participation..etc...life lead me..and its till leading..and i even want it to lead me..and will always want the same..atleast it keeps me free from all tensions..but in long run is this going to help..when i will have to take some major decisions of my life or will the same happen again with me..haha...my favourite word "destiny" will surely intervene in between..and i"ll again say that everything is destined...and it will be destiny if i will be a finance manager,marketing or a HR manager...guys do suggest...i want to cross my road...